Why react to your lives when you could be proactive - together?

If you want to…

  • communicate more effectively

  • learn to manage yourself, not each other

  • mutually work and act on your goals

  • carve out time to talk meaningfully

  • navigate stress at home and at work

  • change and grow together

…then get ready to learn new skills, work toward your goals, and watch your relationship begin to change.

Our relationship has grown in so many ways I didn’t even know was possible. We’ve obtained this relational oneness and we understand why we are the way we are and how our minds operate differently. Our communication has grown and deepened, which ultimately for us, has led to deeper intimacy, and that’s been one of the best parts for me. I believe that’s what God wants from us, for our marriages to reflect and honor him.
— Mindy & Brooks, Business Owners

As a certified coach, licensed therapist, Relationship Enhancement educator, and family systems thinker, I want to empower you to achieve the quality of life and relationship you desire.

Kensi Duszynski - Couples Coach / Relationship Coach

Kensi Duszynski, MA, LMFT, CPC

We’ll talk about…

what’s going well.

what’s not working and why.

how to relate even better to have your healthiest relationship.

You’ll learn to…

communicate more effectively.

stay calm and get clear when conflict arises.

trust that you’re still for each other, even when you don’t see eye-to-eye.

Our marriage was good before, but we both knew we could get better and develop some new skills for communicating. Through our work together, we learned the importance of empathy and validation in practice and everyday conversations. We had a wonderful experience! We would and will recommend Kensi to all of our friends and family.
— James & Martha, Community Organizers

Coaching Commitment: 8 Sessions

That’s about the length of time it takes to teach new skills, instill repetition, and see new patterns take root.

  • Session 1: Getting to know you and your relational patterns.

  • Session 2-7: Working toward your shared goals; practicing new techniques.

  • Session 8: Graduating or re-evaluating continued work together.

We sought out coaching because we didn’t have the most positive way to communicate with one another when it came to a few major issues. Through our work with Kensi, we gained the healthy communication strategies we were looking for. There’s a new sense of trust between the two of us now. Our sessions still come up and it makes me smile because I know deep down we took our sessions seriously and continue to use the tools we learned today!
— John & Nicole, Helping Professional & Business Owner

Couples Coaching is the right fit for:

couples who want to be proactive around communication, conflict, and intimacy.

couples who want to move toward shared goals, but are too busy to hold themselves accountable on their own.

couples in the beginning of a new season, looking to do things right from the start.

Couples Coaching is not the right fit for:

healing from betrayal, addiction, or another significant breach of trust.

healing from family wounds, relational trauma, or abuse.

couples with years of built-up hurts, disconnection, and resentments.

If at any point in the coaching process, it becomes clear that you’re getting stuck due to more deeply rooted issues which are impacting your ability as a couple to work toward your coaching goals, I’m happy to help you find an individual or couples therapist to help you more deeply heal.

Before couples coaching, I would’ve said our marriage was good. But since couples coaching, our marriage is even better. Now I would say we’re head and shoulders above where we were. Before couples coaching, we would listen to the podcast, take notes, and talk about what we heard...but we still didn’t know how to implement the tools. So just being able to learn relationship tools, not to mention having Kensi coach us through how to use them, has made all the difference for me.
— Brooks + Mindy

My philosophy of marriage is twofold:

1) Marriage is a crucible that pressures us to grow up in precisely the ways we need to. The sooner we can see this, the better.

2) The healthiest marriages are ones that achieve what’s called “differentiated unity”: the ability to hold onto one’s self while staying connected to one’s partner in the face of relational pressure and conflict.

After meeting and working with Kensi, we now fully understand what it means to be in a committed relationship with Christ. We treat each other so much better and feel freer to pursue all of our individual goals and relationship goals. Life is 100 times better and the work we did with Kensi was a huge part of that. We learned how to communicate effectively, how to share responsibility and have equality in marriage, and how to be the best version of ourselves for each other.
— Alana & TJ

Resonate with my approach?

Great! That likely means we’d make a good team.

Couples Coaching Investment:

$200 per session or $1,500 paid in full