Why continue to react to your lives and each other when you could be proactive together?

If you want to…

  • create a deeper connection

  • communicate more effectively

  • feel empowered in your marriage

  • work mutually toward your goals

  • carve out time to talk meaningfully

  • reduce conflict and relational stress

  • change and grow together

…then get ready to put in the work, make progress toward your goals, and watch your relationship change.

Our relationship has grown in so many ways I didn’t even know was possible. We’ve obtained this relational oneness and we understand why we are the way we are and how our minds operate differently. Our communication has grown and deepened, which ultimately for us, has led to deeper intimacy, and that’s been one of the best parts for me. I believe that’s what God wants from us, for our marriages to reflect and honor him.
— Mindy & Brooks

As a certified relationship coach and licensed couples therapist, I want to empower you to achieve the quality of life and relationship you desire.

Kensi Duszynski - Couples Coach / Relationship Coach

Kensi Duszynski, MA, LMFT, CPC

We’ll talk about…

what’s going well.

what’s going wrong and why.

how to relate even better to have your healthiest relationship.

You’ll learn to…

communicate more effectively.

stay calm when conflict arises.

trust that you’re still for each other, even when you don’t see eye-to-eye.

Our marriage was good before, but we both knew we could get better and develop some new skills for communicating. Through our work together, we learned the importance of empathy and validation in practice and everyday conversations. We had a wonderful experience! We would and will recommend Kensi to all of our friends and family.
— James & Martha

Coaching Commitment: 8 Sessions

That’s about the length of time it takes to teach new skills, instill repetition, and see new patterns take root.

  • Session 1: Getting to know you and your relational patterns.

  • Session 2-7: Working toward your shared goals; practicing new techniques.

  • Session 8: Graduating or re-evaluating continued work together.

As a coach, I’m relational and gracious, yet honest and well-informed. If I believe more than 8 sessions are needed, I’ll give you my professional opinion, but the work is always up to you.

We sought out coaching because we didn’t have the most positive way to communicate with one another when it came to a few major issues. Through our work with Kensi, we gained the healthy communication strategies we were looking for. There’s a new sense of trust between the two of us now. Our sessions still come up and it makes me smile because I know deep down we took our sessions seriously and continue to use the tools we learned today!
— John & Nicole

Couples Coaching is the right fit for:

couples who want to be proactive, not reactive, around communication, conflict, and intimacy.

couples who are too busy to hold themselves accountable to new behavior on their own.

couples in the beginning of their relationship, looking to do things right from the start.

couples who’ve put their relationship on the back-burner and are ready to get after it!

Couples Coaching is not the right fit for:

healing from betrayal or what one partner deems a significant breach of trust.

healing from past family, partner, or other relational trauma or wounds.

couples with years of built-up hurts and resentment.

Not sure what you need? As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and dually certified coach, I am confident that together, we can find the best fit for you. If that’s with me, great! If it’s not, I’m happy to provide you with resources to continue your search.

Before couples coaching, I would’ve said our marriage was good. But since couples coaching, our marriage is even better. Now I would say we’re head and shoulders above where we were. Before couples coaching, we would listen to the podcast, take notes, and talk about what we heard...but we still didn’t know how to implement the tools. So just being able to learn relationship tools, not to mention having Kensi coach us through how to use them, has made all the difference for me.
— Brooks + Mindy

My philosophy of marriage is twofold:

(You might as well know what you’re signing up for.)

1) Marriage is a crucible that pressures us to grow up in precisely the ways we need to; the sooner we believe this and stop blaming our partner, the better.

2) The healthiest marriages are ones that achieve what’s called “differentiated unity”: the ability to hold onto one’s self WHILE staying connected and committed to one’s partner, in the face of relational pressure and conflict.

After meeting and working with Kensi, we now fully understand what it means to be in a committed relationship with Christ. We treat each other so much better and feel freer to pursue all of our individual goals and relationship goals. Life is 100 times better and the work we did with Kensi was a huge part of that. We learned how to communicate effectively, how to share responsibility and have equality in marriage, and how to be the best version of ourselves for each other.
— Alana & TJ

Resonate with my approach?

Great! That likely means we’d make a good team.

Couples Coaching Investment:

$175 per session

$35 for Prepare-Enrich assessment (if desired)